{"id":2681,"date":"2025-08-04T14:30:32","date_gmt":"2025-08-04T12:30:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/?post_type=stories&amp;p=2681"},"modified":"2025-11-04T09:26:06","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T08:26:06","slug":"if-you-dont-talk-the-problem-continues","status":"publish","type":"stories","link":"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/en\/verhaal\/als-je-niet-praat-gaat-het-probleem-gewoon-door\/","title":{"rendered":"\"If you don't talk the problem just continues\""},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"block_5b3961492f6c0d6e9d29549fda40700b\" class=\"ms_breadcrumbs\">\n            <style>@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em){#block_5b3961492f6c0d6e9d29549fda40700b{margin-bottom:0.5rem;padding-top:0.5rem;padding-bottom:0.5rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em){#block_5b3961492f6c0d6e9d29549fda40700b{margin-bottom:1rem;padding-top:1rem;padding-bottom:1rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 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Ze betaalt al een aantal maanden geen huur meer. Via Amaryllis komt zij in contact met sociaal werkster Tina. Na een tijdje raakt Fatma zwanger en gaat zij samenwonen met haar toenmalige vriend. \u201cToen ik samen ging wonen, was ik erg blij met het huis. \u2018Het leven gaat wel makkelijk\u2019, dacht ik. Maar het ging niet zo makkelijk als gedacht,\u201d vertelt Fatma.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De eerste maand in het nieuwe huis was alles stabiel. Er waren dan wel schulden, maar er waren afspraken gemaakt met die organisaties over terugbetalingen. Alles leek goed te gaan. Helaas was dit niet van lange duur. Fatma raakt haar baan kwijt en er komen een heleboel rekeningen die ze niet kan betalen. Haar vriend helpt om de rekeningen te betalen, maar na een tijdje gaan zij uit elkaar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fatma vertelt hoe ze bij Amaryllis terechtkwam: \u201cVia Google zocht ik hulp bij geld, zo kwam ik bij Amaryllis terecht en belde ik het nummer. Alles was moeilijk en ik wist niet waar ik moest beginnen.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"ms_advanced-title text-left\" id=\"block_b38c65a8ad8061ed1c7aa14642b0fa26\" style=\"--title-sideline-color: #033A7C;\">\n            <style>@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em){#block_b38c65a8ad8061ed1c7aa14642b0fa26{margin-bottom:0.5rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em){#block_b38c65a8ad8061ed1c7aa14642b0fa26{margin-bottom:1rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 64em){#block_b38c65a8ad8061ed1c7aa14642b0fa26{margin-bottom:1rem;}}<\/style>\n    \n            \n                    <h2 style=\"\" class=\"title h3\">\n                Hulp\n\n                <\/h2>\n        \n        \n            \n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cFatma was heel gesloten toen ik haar voor de eerste keer ontmoette,\u201d vertelt Tina. \u201cIk hield alles binnen en kon niet praten over de schulden. Dankzij Tina kreeg ik meer vertrouwen, hierdoor begon ik steeds meer dingen te delen over mijn situatie. Ze heeft mij echt geholpen,\u201d legt Fatma uit. Tina merkte aan alles dat Fatma heel graag wilde veranderen, maar ze wist alleen nog niet hoe. Daar kon Tina succesvol bij helpen. Zo heeft ze onderzoek gedaan naar de hoeveelheid schuld. Samen zijn er schuldregelingen getroffen en de twee hebben veel met elkaar gebeld om Fatma zelfstandiger te maken.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"ms_advanced-quote\" id=\"block_880cff6495229d441d00e051092772e2\">\n            <style>@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em){#block_880cff6495229d441d00e051092772e2{margin-bottom:0.5rem;padding-top:1.25rem;padding-bottom:1.25rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em){#block_880cff6495229d441d00e051092772e2{margin-bottom:1rem;padding-top:2.5rem;padding-bottom:2.5rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 64em){#block_880cff6495229d441d00e051092772e2{margin-bottom:1rem;padding-top:2.5rem;padding-bottom:2.5rem;}}<\/style>\n    \n    <div class=\"wrapper\" >\n        <div class=\"quote-wrapper\">\n            <div class=\"inner-quote-wrapper\">\n                <blockquote class=\"quote\" >\n                                        <p><em>\u201cAls je niet praat, gaat het probleem gewoon door.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n                <\/blockquote>\n                <div class=\"author\" >\n                    \n                                    <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <\/div>\n<\/section>\n\n\n<section class=\"ms_advanced-title text-left\" id=\"block_33bb6e537beeb8e483113327b151c9e7\" style=\"--title-sideline-color: #033A7C;\">\n            <style>@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em){#block_33bb6e537beeb8e483113327b151c9e7{margin-bottom:0.5rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em){#block_33bb6e537beeb8e483113327b151c9e7{margin-bottom:1rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 64em){#block_33bb6e537beeb8e483113327b151c9e7{margin-bottom:1rem;}}<\/style>\n    \n            \n                    <h2 style=\"\" class=\"title h3\">\n                OJO\n\n                <\/h2>\n        \n        \n            \n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tina kwam erachter dat Fatma in aanmerking kwam voor bezoekjes aan het Ontmoetingscentrum voor Jonge Ouders (OJO). \u201cVroeger was ik gewoon de hele week thuis, sinds ik het OJO heb ontdekt ben ik daar elke dinsdag en donderdag. Ik heb veel nieuwe mensen ontmoet en ik kijk er elke week weer naar uit.\u201d\u00a0 De basis voor Fatma was de financi\u00eble hulpverlening, maar op deze manier kreeg zij hulp voor verschillende leefgebieden.<\/p>\n\n\n<section class=\"ms_advanced-title text-left\" id=\"block_10ee1674fbc9c5f298901f8620d915ec\" style=\"--title-sideline-color: #033A7C;\">\n            <style>@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em){#block_10ee1674fbc9c5f298901f8620d915ec{margin-bottom:0.5rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em){#block_10ee1674fbc9c5f298901f8620d915ec{margin-bottom:1rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 64em){#block_10ee1674fbc9c5f298901f8620d915ec{margin-bottom:1rem;}}<\/style>\n    \n            \n                    <h2 style=\"\" class=\"title h3\">\n                Verandering\n\n                <\/h2>\n        \n        \n            \n    <\/section>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tina blikt terug op de afgelopen periode: \u201cEerst zag ik dat Fatma heel verlegen was. Haar vriend regelde veel voor haar. Nu zie ik echt een zelfverzekerde vrouw voor me die alles zelf regelt en haar eigen leven op orde wil hebben.\u201d Fatma zelf is het hier helemaal mee eens: \u201cIk onderneem nu gelijk actie als er iets met mij is, dat deed ik eerst niet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hoe Fatma de toekomst voor zich ziet? \u201cIn de toekomst wil ik schuldenvrij zijn en weer een studie oppakken. Ik wil verpleegkunde doen, want ik wil graag mensen helpen.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zit jij in een vergelijkbare situatie als Fatma? Dan heeft ze een advies. \u201cJe moet praten, je hoeft niet stil te zijn. Als je niet praat, gaat het probleem gewoon door.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_msocom_1\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><style>#ms-container-5b3ce6e.has-background:before {\n\tbackground-color: transparent;\n}\n \n@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em) {\n\t#ms-container-5b3ce6e {\n\t\tpadding-bottom: 1.5rem;\n\n\t}\n}\n\n@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em) {\n\t#ms-container-5b3ce6e {\n\t\tpadding-bottom: 3rem;\n\n\t}\n}\n\n@media screen and (min-width: 64em) {\n\t#ms-container-5b3ce6e {\n\t\tpadding-bottom: 3rem;\n\n\t}\n}<\/style><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ms-container-1293225\" class=\"wp-block-ms-container alignfull has-background has-background-opacity-10 has-height-normal\"><div class=\"ms-container--wrapper alignnormal\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Meer verhalen<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"ms_cards\" data-equalizer  id=\"block_646137d61eeadf02cfd770021f64070e\">\n            <style>@media screen and (max-width: 39.9375em){#block_646137d61eeadf02cfd770021f64070e{margin-bottom:0.5rem;padding-top:1.25rem;padding-bottom:1.25rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 40em) and (max-width: 63.9375em){#block_646137d61eeadf02cfd770021f64070e{margin-bottom:1rem;padding-top:2.5rem;padding-bottom:2.5rem;}}@media screen and (min-width: 64em){#block_646137d61eeadf02cfd770021f64070e{margin-bottom:1rem;padding-top:2.5rem;padding-bottom:2.5rem;}}<\/style>\n        \n    \n            <div class=\"cards has-3-items has-3-items-desktop has-3-items-tablet has-1-items-mobile has-16-9-aspect-ratio is-big \">\n    <div class=\"item-card\">\n        <div class=\"item-card-inner\">\n                                                                        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/en\/verhaal\/als-je-iets-kunt-doen-doe-dat-dan\/\" >\n                                                    <div class=\"card card-normal object-position-center\">\n                                        \n                                                                        <div class=\"image\">\n                                                                                                                                                                                                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"425\" height=\"340\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-425x340.jpg\" class=\"card-image wp-post-image\" alt=\"202610~1\" sizes=\"(max-width: 639px) 100vw, (max-width: 1023px) calc((100vw - 4rem) \/ 3), 416px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-425x340.jpg 425w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-1024x820.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-768x615.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-1536x1230.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-2048x1640.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-15x12.jpg 15w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-1440x1153.jpg 1440w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-850x680.jpg 850w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-1275x1021.jpg 1275w, https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/2026101-200x160.jpg 200w\" \/>\n                                                                                            <\/div>\n                                                                <div class=\"card-section\" data-equalizer-watch>\n                                                <p class=\"title h4 line-clamp-[--line-clamp]\" style=\"--line-clamp: 2;\">&#8220;Als je iets kunt doen, doe dat dan&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n    <div class=\"excerpt line-clamp-[--line-clamp]\" style=\"--line-clamp: 4;\">\n        Met aandacht, praktische hulp en veel betrokkenheid helpt Dina nieuwkomers in de gemeente Leeuwarden.\n    <\/div>\n\n\n\n\n    <span class=\"read-more\">\n        Lees het verhaal \n                    <iconify-icon icon=\"far:angle-right\" class=\"iconify icon-sm icon-fw\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/iconify-icon>\n            \n                <\/span>\n\n                                            <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n                                                            <\/a>\n                                                \n                    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n                    <div class=\"item-card\">\n        <div class=\"item-card-inner\">\n                                                                        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/en\/verhaal\/4408-2\/\" >\n                                                    <div class=\"card card-normal object-position-center\">\n                                        \n                                                                        <div class=\"image\">\n                                                                                                                                                                                                        <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"425\" height=\"283\" src=\"https:\/\/www.amaryllisleeuwarden.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/20260928_20260928-Seyed_Amaryllis_Mark-Grupstra_001-425x283.jpg\" class=\"card-image wp-post-image\" alt=\"Mohammed\" sizes=\"(max-width: 639px) 100vw, (max-width: 1023px) calc((100vw - 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